The following behaviors may be a sign that you’re in an unhealthy relationship. If you feel unsafe or unsure, contact Call to Safety at 1.888.235.5333 or 503.235.5333
- Does your partner control who you see, where you go, or what you do?
- Does your partner keep you from seeing family and friends?
- Does your partner keep you from getting or keeping a job or from attending school?
- Does your partner threaten to “out” you at work or to your family or friends?
- Does your partner control your money?
- Is your partner the only one with access to financial resources and important info like account numbers?
- Has your partner intentionally caused property damage for which you are responsible?
- Has your partner’s behavior ever caused you to be evicted from your housing?
- Has your partner prevented you from having your name on a lease, rental agreement or mortgage?
- Does your partner physically abuse you or threaten to?
- Does your partner threaten to harm or take away your children?
- Are you afraid to leave your children alone with your partner?
- Has your partner forced you to have sex when you don’t want to or to do things sexually that you’re uncomfortable with?